Over the years while traveling the Interstate system, I have coveted certain areas that I will pull over and park for the night. I have a favorite spot to break Denver-OKC or Las Vegas-OKC and so forth. One such place is a WalMart outside of Albuquerque, New Mexico, just on the east side after you come up the canyon. This year on the way to Pahrump for the bus meet, we pulled in there to overnight and get some groceries.
Have been home about a week now, back in “the swing of things” familiar surroundings, smells, routines. It is always nice to get away, and believe it or not, I am ready to head out again.
On the other hand, the wife is not. Continue reading
My grandson (11 years old) cannot throw a football, he does not play baseball, no Frizbee either. He for the most part, sits in his home and plays video games. And that to me is so sad, but as this is treading on tender-ground in the family dynamic, I keep it to myself. There is so much more to life, so many adventures and learning experiences are out there, ripe for the taking, but he will never know them.
It occurred to me that someone ought to start a thread on the strange things or interesting adventures we have done in their lives. All of us at one time or another have done some things that others (especially those of us that are not insane by nature) would consider strange, adventuresome, or interesting. My Bucket List on life is for the most part empty, I have had my fair share of adventure and really feel more or less circumspect in my life at this point in time. As it has been kind of slow here lately this has been on my mind.
So during a lull in festivities, I made a list of some of the quirky things in my life.
Did a snipe hunt once or twice, before I figured out that Snipes are not indigenous to Oklahoma, just to my cousin’s house out on a farm east of Crescent, Oklahoma. On the same token, I have never stuck my tongue to a frozen flag pole in December. Played “stomp ball at the park” in a four inch downpour and loved every dog-gone minute of it.
When I was young, I walked thru a railroad tunnel in Niles Canyon, California. With no flashlight to illuminate the way, no working knowledge of trains or train schedules, another guy, Jim Crossett and I walked thru this roughly two mile long tunnel. When JFK said “every American should be able to walk fifty miles” my buddies and I, rode our ten speed bikes 112 miles in one day. Left at 4:30 am in the morning and it was wayyyyyyy after dark when we got back.
Climbed a hydroelectric transmission tower to the very top, man man, the juice flowing thru that thing sounded just like bacon frying on Mama’s stove and you could see forever. Been to the top of two or three volcano’s in my life all extinct, none were active. Surfed at Santa Cruz and body-whopped Half Moon Bay. Sat on a boat dock, in Jax Florida and ate Oysters right out of the shell and washed them down with hot sauce and Budweiser.
I found an abandoned mine in the Sierra’s once and we went back into that about 1/2 mile or so, only to discover a ceiling chocked full of bats! Now that turned out to be a turning point in my life, as I found myself whenever I discovered one (abandoned mines or tunnels), venturing deep into the pits of a mine and exploring by flashlight, the bowels of mother earth.
We were in Spain, and a guy bet me that I would not jump off of a perfectly good aircraft carrier, so I did. Ninety-four feet to the waterline. But this wasn’t something all that new to me, I had previously jumped off a railroad bridge at Lake Texhoma and a public bridge at Catfish Bay, Oklahoma.
Noodled for catfish on the Washita River and went to a Rattlesnake hunt in Okeene, Oklahoma, both I would wholeheartedly pass up today. There are safer things to do in this life, such as, digging for sand crystals on the Salt Flats or something like that.
My cousin talked me into climbing a rock face with him in Colorado and everything was just swell, until I found myself at a place where I could not go up or go down. Froze on the side of rock cliff for some six hours, not a pleasant Saturday afternoon as I recall.
I danced with a transvestite in Trieste, Italy, and did not know that he/she was a tranny. That got interesting for a brief time, until I gave “her” to Harry Braid, who was from Dayton Ohio, and I assume he had never danced with one either.
Took diving lessons, learned to dive in a swimming pool with an instructor. Then went to Florida and did a dive that was sixty-five feet. Made it half-way down, and my ears started to really bother me, so I stopped and held onto the rope, that is until a Barracuda swam by my face, and then I decided it was time to go up (Post haste) to the dive boat.
Went up in a small airplane three times to jump and begin my sport parachute career, didn’t happen. I did however get out on the wheel strut and briefly looked down at the earth, some 4,000 ft below before crawling back into the plane. Ran my Harley up to an honest 130 MPH on a country road one hot July back in seventy-four. Rode it 6,000 miles across America over a period of some five months time.
Skinny dipped with college kids on the South Canadian River, swam in the Yellowstone River sans attire, did a river in Idaho one time alongside a busy highway. Never have been to a topless beach but I have heard of them. Did some class three rapids on a river in California and a girl named Debbie on lake in Missouri at midnight on a full moon night in August.
You would think that would be the end of it, but it isn’t. Not long ago I inadvertently came across one more opportunity for adventure of sorts.
We were in New Mexico having breakfast at Clines Corners. Two local guys pulled in with a pickup and horse trailer and then unloaded three horses to rest, and tied them to the trailer. They came in and sat down in the booth next to us and ordered breakfast. I inquired of one of them, “How come you have three horses, but there are only two of you?” and this guy smiled and says, “Charlie was out all night long chasing skirts, and did not want to get out of bed this morning. We decided to come on without him, we had already loaded the horses.”
He then looks at me and says, “Can you ride a horse?” and his buddy kind of chuckled.
I replied with, “You betcha, I can sit a horse, no problem.”
He then said, “You wanna go up in the hills with us and bring down some cattle today?” and I looked at the wife and said “You be okay, here in the parking lot?” and she just gave me that look that I know so well after all these years.
Now it is your turn. What is the strangest or most interesting thing you have done in your life?
Take a shot at it.
WordPress Junk Files January: Fresh Pressed 01-04 …. “Snowboarding post, high in the Rocky Mountains where the snowboarder finds himself gasping for air at 10,000 feet above sea level, a place generally reserved for mule deer, mountain goats, and the skeletal remains of the pioneering Donner party. The ill fated Donner party met their demise in the Sierra Nevada Mountains outside Truckee California not in the Rockies. So much for “checking for accuracy and source material” before being Fresh Pressed huh?
If I see that J.C. Penny Commercial one more time with the women screaming at the top of their lungs, I am going to go bonkers. That has to be the worst commercial currently running on television these days. How they equate screaming with a desire to shop, I will never know. My girlfriend on Trop 50 has a new one out, and it is a kick in the you-know-what. You Had Work Done?
A Doctor was addressing a large audience in Tampa. ‘The material we put into our stomachs is enough to have killed most of us sitting here, years ago. Red meat is awful. Soft drinks corrode your stomach lining. Chinese food is loaded with MSG. High fat diets can be disastrous, and none of us realizes the long-term harm caused by the germs in our drinking water. However, there is one thing that is the most dangerous of all and we all have eaten, or will eat it. Can anyone here tell me what food it is that causes the most grief and suffering for years after eating it?’
After several seconds of quiet, a 75-year-old man in the front row raised his hand,
and softly said, “Wedding Cake.”
No good huh. Well, whadya want for free?
Do you know what a woman’s’ thong and a barbwire fence have in common?
They both restrict access … but they don’t spoil the view. One thing we can all agree on, “they are not for everyone.”
Now here is something to boast about. I have not watched one episode of the new season of American Idol … Not one minute of it. I deserve an award. It is almost as if I am on the twelve step program concerning reality television. Come to think of it, I never won an award, trophy or prize in my life.
One time when I was about 10 or 11 years old, I ran a race and my father came to watch me. I didn’t do so well, came in about 8 or 9th as I remember. On the way home, my father took his watch off, and handed it to me. Not a new watch, and old watch, but to a ten year old kid, this is a big thing.
Taking it, I put it on my wrist and said to my father, “I didn’t win the race. Why are you giving me this?” and he said, “Well, I am not giving it to you for winning, I am giving it to you for trying.”
That is better than any old trophy.
Try this one. Ready? Two candy bars for two dollars, or one at the regular price. Better yet, ready? Two KING-SIZED candy bars for three dollars or one at the regular price. My old man used to squeal like a stuck pig when I asked him for two bits (a quarter) for a coke AND a candy bar.
I don’t understand. Girls with tattoos’, what is up with that? Guys with pierced lips and eyebrows. I just cannot figure it out to beat the band.
Some more things I do not understand:
Popcorn Chicken … What in the world is that?
Buffalo Wings … Uh huh, sure.
New Sexy Hair (only $13) and I just have to chuckle, no really, I just have to.
New Skin? Yeah, I know. Think about it.
Let’s eat out: “Chase every skillet bite with one of five lip-smacking, fruity fusion favorites.” Cool, tangy and loaded with “Ah.”
Uh huh, sure.
Maybe it is just me … but I just don’t get it.
Now this, this is really something else. Try it, it will blow you away. A super cool optical illusion
A brand new week on tap, make it or waste it, as always, your choice.
One way or the other … It is all up to you.
I like the country
Can’t stand all this city strife
Guess I want to be on the boulevard … rollin’
Rollin’ all my life.
Open the east gate of Yellowstone and let me in!
Thinking about Bear Tooth Pass,
Cooke City, Red Lodge Montana
two-lane highways and cheap gas.
Clear water streams
What a hopeless romantic,
a man of many dreams.
No adventure in my life,
No more icing on the cake,
Ho hugs, soft kisses, warm hello’s,
No backrubs, or calls on the telephone,
No important dates for me to make,
My coffee cup has developed a pinhole leak on the bottom,
My first problem of the day.
Wednesday morning, my idle mind draggin’ my heart around. I can hear the low muffled sound of my own heart beating. It disturbs me, a distressing reminder of my own mortality. A slow steady drum beat of how fragile life really can be, and I stop to consider the fact that we seldom realize the frailty of it all.
Sitting here at my window with my cup of Joe, meditating. Today, this day, my thoughts should be concentrated on other things, not so much on leaving, getting out of here. But rather, just making it thru another Oklahoma winter day.
Much like the fading last embers in a dying campfire … the memory of the weekend is fading … Two quick short days in heaven, often just isn’t enough. Perhaps a trip north to Yellowstone or a quick visit to Orlando and some white sand, might just be what the doc ordered up?
I need a two-week placebo for my winter time blues.
The votes having been counted, it was noted that the tribe had a new chief. He was a young chief, not versed in the ways and rituals of the tribe. He stood before them and promised that he would do the very best that he was capable of as their new leader.
One brave asked him, “Chief, will we have a bad winter?”
The new chief, not really knowing, said to him, “Me tell you tomorrow.” That night, he called the U.S. Weather Service and inquired about the weather, the man on the phone said to him, “Right now, we are not all that sure. Cut firewood.”
So the next day, the new chief assembled the tribe and said to them, “Winter cold. Cut firewood.”
A month later, the same brave, same question. “What will winter be like this year?” again the new chief tells him, “See me tomorrow.” He then again calls the U.S. Weather Service in Santa Fe New Mexico and they tell him, “We are not sure. Cut firewood.”
So again the new chief assembles everyone and tells them the same news, adding “cut more firewood.”
Two months goes by and it turns a little bit nippy, the leaves have fallen from the tree’s, there is a little frost on the pumpkin early in the morning. Again the tribe member inquires about the weather, again the new chief tells him to see him tomorrow. He dials up the number, and makes the inquiry.
“What winter be like?” The man at the U.S. Weather Bureau on the other end says, “We aren’t sure, but it may get really bad, all these Indians around here are cutting firewood like crazy!”
Turning cold, old man winter is just around the corner. I can tell as my old bones tell me so every morning when I roll out of bed. It has gotten so bad, that now I find, different parts of me are waking up at different times. We had some arctic cold move thru here over the weekend.
Let it be known, “I am not a Big Fan of Wintertime. No Sir.” This is the time of the year when you start having problems with your skin, it dries out, things start itching on you, you catch yourself scratching parts of your body that you have not seen in five years.
One thing you can do to avoid dry winter skin is to not take hot showers. Long, hot showers strip the skin of essential oils. You can also switch soaps. Use something that is not all that harsh. Wash only what needs washing (the stinky parts) and let the rest of it go. This will not make any points with the little woman, but we are talking survival here, not affection.
Use more moisturizers, I prefer the pump kind in the bottle, but I have been told they are not good enough to get the job done. You need thick moisturizers. The hard, thick creamy jobs, it should have a sort of Vanilla Milk Shake texture. You can also increase the indoor humidity of your home in the winter. And lastly, if none of this works for you, you can move to Arizona or Florida.
Tomorrow boys & girls, we will show you how to make a therm-o-nuclear device out of ordinary household cleaners found around the house, don’t miss it. (I know I am really looking forward to it)
This morning we find ourselves at the Flyin’ Hooker (Flying J Truck-stop) some 400 miles from the house in Tucumcari, New Mexico. Savoring a cup of coffee and taking note of my surroundings. So far, I have discovered this. Early morning coffee drinkers are a strange lot, some of us like it lukewarm and others piping hot. (Hey? That rhymes, I could be a poet and didn’t know it) Now I ask you, can life get any better? Fast food joints, breakfast in the morning, sleeping in the back of the parking lot in a truck-stop.
For the most part, the joint is empty, a couple of freight hauling truckers sitting at the counter, two young kids in a booth, who seem to be “all over each other.” I study them intently, she has black lipstick, black fingernails, jewelry everywhere, and I do mean everywhere. It is in her ear, her nose, a spot above her eyebrows is pierced.
A picture of loveliness. Every Mother’s pride and joy.
Now her not so apparent non-virginal counterpart, he is much the same, hair is askew, lip pierced, ear ring, and BOTH eyebrows have shiny appendages sticking out of them. I think to myself, “this kid is ripe for marriage, he is ready to go.”
He has endured pain and he has already bought jewelry.
Owning a bus makes life a little bit more interesting and somewhat better. It affords me the luxury of being able to get out and away from all those things in life that manage to drag me down. It takes my mind off this ugly rash in my left armpit and the nation’s economy. I have no Late Breaking … Live … Local Headlines to contend with, no cable bill, no sorry political viewpoint to consider on my television. I have no user screen name or password retrieval issues to face this day … I am fine with the world.
Strangely I find myself riding a gentle wave of adventure this day. I have the road calling to me and some free time to answer up. Don’t get me wrong, life in El Reno, Oklahoma is good. But on the whole, at least today, I find that I would rather be somewhere else, somewhere far, far away.
The sun cracks the horizon and morning arrives. Wrapped tight in my private thoughts, I hardly take notice. Over in the corner of the parking lot I hear my Pig Iron Pony idling and I sense he is chomping at the bit, he is ready to run and I am to some extent, ready myself. Daddy’s Hobby and his turbo charged big horses, want to get out and register a few serious miles. I am obligated to oblige, droppin’ a couple of singles on the table I head out to the parking lot.
Today we will be westbound and down, “six on the floor and the other one out the dog-gone door, hammered down.” Our reserved spot in the fast lane waits for us. Tomorrow this place will be just a faint memory.
Life is good … I am a fortunate Pilgrim indeed.
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