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August 13, 2012

Mellow Out

“Keep this on the Q.T. until we can get it up and running?”

Chill Out Dude:  Hard to believe, but it is has taken me literally a lifetime to learn how to mellow out, to not let the little things in life get to me.  Now it should be understood that I am not entirely successful at this practice, but I do try and get it right on a daily basis. 

Some days I win and on some days I do not.

Angry men studies have found are three times more likely to develop heart disease and six times more likely to suffer a heart attack before age 55.  Now I am never going to see 55 again, and I sure do not want any or part of that, so I try and stay cool.  Feeling that you’re constantly at war with idiots and villains gets your body stuck in the fight or at least in fight gear mode, a lot goes on during this process.

All of the hormones and toxins are released which raise your blood pressure and eats away at your vitals.  I figure the absolute best revenge on all these people that steal my joy in life, is just to ignore them and find my happy place.  No matter how hard they try, they cannot take that away from me.

The happiest people it seems work for the government.  Hard to believe.  Public servants as they used to be called (we all know different now, don’t we?) found more happiness in life.  The least happy employees work in agriculture, mining, internet firms and the media.

Might be because “they don’t have to do anything all day long?”

Curious Minds Want To Know:  A Florida bar denied transgender customers discount drinks on Ladies Night.  A lady, who was born male, said she and three transgender friends were told by a bouncer at the Florida bar that they didn’t qualify or Ladies Night “because you’re dudes.”  The bar has since apologized vowing to be a premier nightlife destination for everyone.  Now I guess my basic question here would be, “if they were born male, then how did the bouncer know this, if they were indeed dressed like women?”

Stop Whining:  All these largely middle class people that want the 1% to cough up their riches ought to stop and consider something.  On a global scale, the world has a terrible inequity problem, that is a given.  But the self proclaimed 99% do not seem to understand that by global standards, they are considered rich.  The average American family makes about 50% more than the world’s poorest families, many who live on less than $1.25 per day.

So stop your bitchin’ you have it better than most.

Rising From The Dead:  BCM, Bus Conversions Magazine is coming back  This weekend I got an email from one of the editors of the now defunct Bus Conversion Magazine formally of MAK Publishing, soliciting material from me for a start up of the mag beginning in September.

Now this rag, earlier this year, walked away from all of its obligations to its readership, arbitrarily voided their subscriptions and stopped publishing.  They also did not respond to emails, telephone or any other inquiries or communications and shut everyone out.  Not a nice thing to do to people regardless of your situation.

Now they are wanting “free contributions of material” to get it back on its feet and going again.  I especially got a kick out of this:  “All of this needs to be kept on the down-low so we can surprise our subscribers in September.”

That last quote I found particularly amusing.

On the down-low is an expression used mainly by black males, who are married, and are sneaking out at night to engage in sex with other men (in all fairness I suppose it could mean to cover something of a clandestine nature).  Perhaps it would have been more appropriate to have said “Keep this on the Q.T. until we can get it up and running?”

Being as they have in the past taken submitted material from me and NOT paid for it, I have no use for them or their two-bit poorly conceived rag.  One thing BCM and its people need to learn is, “Never forget the hand that helps you up, and the boot that shows you to the door.”  Nothing forthcoming from here, and because it is Mickey-Mouse in nature, I cannot see it surviving in the future.  Some people get lost in the woods, and some people get found.  This poorly written, sub-standard magazine is doomed from the start, new leadership or not.

This mailed out media-dog aint gonna hunt.

So that are it for Monday boys & girls, the good, the bad, and the ugly.  Just remember that four out of five people between the age of 9 and 21 at least temporarily show some form of mental illness.  This would be depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and of course, addictions.

Now look around the room.

If you haven’t learned to mellow out now, you should be thinking about it.

OOO

March 14, 2011

New Arrival

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Johnny, our youngest kid, just turned 40, time sure has a way of sneaking up on you.  First thing you know, it has as the bible says, “like a thief in the night” robbed you of what you hold so dear.  Time.  This morning I am thinking about the youngster, not the man, not the father or the devoted husband.  We received an email this week that announced to us the arrival, or rather impending arrival, of another grand baby.  This makes #4 for Johnny and his wife Lily.  He always told us when he was younger he wanted to “have at least eight children” and it appears that he is now half-way there.  So today’s post is not about Johnny the father, but rather,  Johnny the kid.

Back in the day, when Johnny was a young lad, I used to work for the worst boss in the world, well he might not have been “the” worst boss in the world, but he was definitely in the top five.  He used to adjust my attitude on a daily basis, and I have to admit, it worked.  I would not only adopt the attitude, but I would bring it home with me.  It often didn’t take a whole lot to have me chasin’ my own tail by four o’clock in the afternoon.

Working for this moron was not the high point of my day, too many days that I care to remember.

One particular day, I came home with a bad case of attitude and really found myself not to be good company to a man or a dog.  Johnny who was just being a kid, doing what kid’s do, irritated the fizz out of me and I unloaded on the boy.  I made it unmistakably clear that I wasn’t having any of it and he was not helping matters much by contributing to my discomfort with life in general.

In other words, I mounted the kid pretty bad.

The next day at work, I got to thinking about what it is that I did, what it is that I said, why it was, that I found myself so hopelessly wrong.  So when I got home, I asked the boy, “You wanna go see a movie?” and he eyed me rather suspiciously and said, “What kind of movie?” and I said, “Uh I dunno, I am sure I can find something.”

We then loaded up and headed out to the theater to see a flick, leaving Mom at home.  Just the two of us.

Unfortunately, the childrens fare was not all that good that particular day as I remember it, and we had to settle for something a little bit more mature and adult in nature.  Afterwords, we went to the local Ice Cream eatery and we chowed down on a Banana Split with extra cherries, extra nuts, we basically shared “the works” the boy and I.

And we talked, I mean really talked.

We sat there in the booth and we laughed and in one of those rare moments, we shared a little of each other.  I apologized to the boy and told him about life, how you had to contend with certain people in order to make a living and told him that what happened the day before was not his fault.

In detail, taking pains to make sure he knew what had transpired, I explained that it was MY fault, not his, that I was just having a rotten day and that he was just being a kid.

The boy in his gracious nature said, “Aw, don’t worry about it Dad, it is okay.”

On the way home, sitting next to me in the car, he looked up and he said, “Hey Dad?” and I said, “Yeah, what John?” He said, “I really liked that movie Dad, but it would have been a lot better if it didn’t have all that dumb sex in it, huh?”

Every now and then … You can learn a lot from a nine year old.

Start the week off on the right foot, when you come home today from the nine to five that has a tendency to “eat your lunch.”   Stop, reach down and grab your kid, give ‘em a big hug and tell them you love them.

Kids need that in their lives … and you do too.

OOO

August 23, 2008

Weekend Mixer …

Honolulu, Hawaii …  The state library system is looking for a way to save money.  They like the rest of America, have a budget deficit, so they are trying to cut expenses and are not going to purchase $400,000 books, save an additional $180K by not filling vacancies and cut $600K from power bills and utility usage in a power saving measure.  Now lets see, a library without new books, cutting the power, as long as you are able to read in the dark, I don’t see a problem with that.

Temper -Temper. Benjamin Pontiatowski, 21, was charged two parking tickets on his two vehicles he owned, he in turn got so mad, that when he found the tickets, he ripped them up (in front of the trooper who had just issued them, not a smart move) and deposited them on the ground.  The trooper then wrote him another ticket for littering and he was allowed to drive off.

But wait it gets even worse. A woman in Fort Walton Beach, Florida while walking with her two children was nearly run over by another woman in an automobile.  So she gently approached the driver to let her know that her and her two children were alright and unhurt.  Inexplicably, the driver of the car erupted, and when the woman tried to calm her by offering her a church brochure, the furious driver took it, grabbed her pants and jerked them down, and proceeded to wipe a part of her body with it, while the other woman shielded the eyes of her two children.

And worser … A judge in Grants Pass, Oregon sentenced a 26 year old woman to 20 days in jail and ordered her to pay a fine of $104,000 for setting up her grandparents for a burglary that eventually left their RV and a Jaguar dumped in the Rogue River.  She blamed her actions on a methamphetamine habit.  Now where in the world is a tweaker going to come up with $104K … They can kiss that one goodbye.

Is it me, or is everyone starting to act like they are wound a little too tight here lately?

Don’t do that … It’ll Make You Go Blind. You ever get caught doing something you were not supposed to be doing by your mother and she would say, “Don’t do that, it will make you go blind.” My mother caught me and said that to me.  We (a buddy and myself) were lying on our backs in the backyard staring at an eclipse of the sun, and we did not have enough photo negatives to block out the intense light from the star.  My mother went into the house, got us some more negatives (too make the home-made event observer considerably darker) and then we were allowed to continue.  More ….

Often when I am reading the latest media news and I come across something that Bush said, it makes me wonder what color the sky is, in his little world.  Now Bush Claims He Worked ‘Closely’ With Vets Organizations On GI Bill.  But the VFW said It ‘Didn’t Have Much Input.  Once again, he steps up to the plate to try and steal someone else’s thunder and it backfires in his face.  More …

Peeping Tom – (Not for Kids) Email of the week … This girl I know lives on the 4th floor of an apartment, and even though it is a fairly good neighborhood, she has been having trouble with a Peeping Tom that lives next door.  Every time she goes out on her balcony to catch a bit of sun while wearing her bikini, this Peeping Tom looks over from his balcony as soon as she removes her top, and stares at her.  She has complained to the superintendent about this Peeping Tom, but he says she must have positive proof before he can do a thing.

She FINALLY got a picture of him while he was staring at her

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